How can I talk with my teenager about
drugs?
The website
http://www.teen-drug-abuse.org offers tips on how to talk to teens about
drug use:
- Educate yourself
– Find out about the issues. Check with local schools, agencies and
information services for the resources you will need. Find books at the
local library. The more informed you are, the easier it will be to discuss
the issues.
- Be accessible and open-minded
– The idea is to open a dialogue. Listen to what your teens have to say. Ask
questions and do not judge.
- Be clear
– Your main message should be clearly stated: “don't use drugs” should be
the core theme of your discussions.
- Keep it relaxed
– Avoid the “We have to talk” approach. Relax and talk about it over supper
or when you're driving to the mall. If you are casual, it will help your
children to be more honest and willing to talk.
- Grab opportunities
– Use teachable moments. If you have just seen a TV show or poster that
discusses the issue, use this to allow the discussion to come up naturally.
- Discuss peer pressure
– Talk about ways to say no and how to deal with the pressures to conform
and fit in.
- Practice what you preach
– Kids imitate adults. If you abuse drugs yourself, no matter what you tell
your teens, your actions speak louder than words. Avoid being a hypocrite
and perhaps it is time that you examine your own problem first.
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